{"id":601,"date":"2022-04-26T16:01:53","date_gmt":"2022-04-26T16:01:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/?p=601"},"modified":"2025-03-16T19:12:50","modified_gmt":"2025-03-16T19:12:50","slug":"lectia-atasamentului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/lectia-atasamentului\/","title":{"rendered":"Tema ata\u0219amentului"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cThe root of suffering is attachment.\u201c<br> R\u0103d\u0103cina suferin\u021bei este ata\u0219amentul.<br> Buddha<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exist\u0103 o \u00eentreag\u0103 mi\u0219care \u201ccultural-spiritual\u0103\u201c de respingere \u0219i def\u0103imare a ata\u0219amentului, \u00een favoarea practic\u0103rii deta\u0219\u0103rii, pe care \u0219i eu personal am \u00eencurajat-o o vreme. Se mai spune de asemenea c\u0103 ata\u0219amentul \u0219i dorin\u021ba cauzeaz\u0103 \u00een mod inevitabil suferin\u021ba. A\u0219adar, ata\u0219amentul e bun sau e r\u0103u? \u0218i de fapt ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 ata\u0219amentul? \u00cen dex este definit astfel: <br> Afec\u021biune (puternic\u0103 \u0219i durabil\u0103) fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva sau de ceva. <br><br>Mai departe afec\u021biunea este definit\u0103 ca: <br>Simpatie, prietenie, dragoste fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva. <br>Am\u00e2ndou\u0103 sunt sinonime cu: c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u2013 dragoste \u2013 iubire &#8211; prietenie \u2013 simpatie. <br><br>Dac\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la verbul a ata\u0219a vom g\u0103si urm\u0103toarele defini\u021bii:<br> A (se) al\u0103tura (vremelnic) de ceva sau de cineva. <br>reflexiv figurat &#8211; A se LEGA suflete\u0219te de cineva sau de ceva. <br><br>\u00cen opozi\u021bie cu ata\u0219amentul, deta\u0219area este definit\u0103 ca: Desprindere, desp\u0103r\u021bire, izolare, separare, separa\u021bie, \u00eendep\u0103rtare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i atunci, de ce campania asta generalizat\u0103 \u00eempotriva ata\u0219amentului? Toate aceste defini\u021bii au exclusiv conota\u021bii benefice, fiind \u00een mod evident asociate cu iubirea \u0219i nu \u00een opozi\u021bie cu ea. A\u0219adar, s\u0103 ne ata\u0219\u0103m sau s\u0103 ne deta\u0219\u0103m, cum ar fi mai bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd \u0219i de ce apare ata\u0219amentul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd a\u0219 dori s\u0103 fac o precizare esen\u021bial\u0103: ata\u0219amentul nu e sinonim cu dependen\u021ba, care reflect\u0103 o stare de subordonare, de supunere, de lips\u0103 de libertate, de INdependen\u021b\u0103. \u00cen ce situa\u021bie se pot ata\u0219a, LIPI, LEGA 2 piese una de cealalt\u0103? Doar dac\u0103 se potrivesc. La un magnet, spre exemplu, polul negativ se lipe\u0219te de polul pozitiv al unui alt magnet. \u00centr- un puzzle, piesele se ata\u0219eaz\u0103 doar \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 ordine \u0219i configura\u021bie pentru a revela \u00eentreg ansamblul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Referitor la persoane-personaje, a\u0219 spune c\u0103 ata\u0219amentul apare ca o stare de necesitate oric\u00e2nd exist\u0103 o lips\u0103, con\u0219tientizat\u0103 sau nu. Situa\u021bia d\u0103 na\u0219tere la dorin\u021ba de completare care, prin for\u021ba atrac\u021biei, va duce la ata\u0219ament de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd partea care lipse\u0219te va fi recunoscut\u0103 \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 fiin\u021b\u0103 sau obiect. Valoarea ata\u0219amentului va fi direct proportional\u0103 cu urgen\u021ba lipsei. Atunci c\u00e2nd partea care lipse\u0219te va fi definitiv integrat\u0103, ata\u0219amentul de oglinda exterioar\u0103 poate s\u0103 dispar\u0103, fiind \u00eenlocuit cu deta\u0219area. Fiecare form\u0103 de ata\u0219ament vorbe\u0219te despre lipsurile mental-emo\u021bionale \u0219i dorin\u021bele unui personaj pe scena vie\u021bii:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>fa\u021b\u0103 de al\u021bi oameni despre integrarea unor aspecte ale personalit\u0103\u021bii,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>fa\u021b\u0103 de animale \u0219i natur\u0103 despre integrarea \u00een con\u0219tiin\u021ba universal\u0103,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>fa\u021b\u0103 de bunuri \u0219i propriet\u0103\u021bi despre siguran\u021ba oferit\u0103 de puterea material\u0103,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>fa\u021b\u0103 de idei \u0219i concepte despre \u00een\u021belepciunea oferit\u0103 de extinderea cunoa\u0219terii.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Prin urmare, ata\u0219amentul ar fi un mod de manifestare a iubirii, mai exact iubirea care une\u0219te p\u00e2n\u0103 la contopire. Dac\u0103 toate elementele care compun realitatea ar ajunge s\u0103 fie perfect \u00eembinate \u0219i integrate \u00eentr-un ansamblu coerent, atunci coeziunea Lumii ar deveni indestructibil\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 una alta ni se servesc deta\u0219area, disocierea, segregarea, delimitarea, ca instrumente de evolu\u021bie personal\u0103 \u0219i mijloace de evitare a suferin\u021bei. Dar, mai degrab\u0103 dec\u00e2t deta\u0219area, ata\u0219area tuturor aspectelor \u0219i experien\u021belor vie\u021bii \u00eentr-un \u00eentreg armonios \u0219i perfect func\u021bional, ne-ar putea oferi o perspectiv\u0103 complet diferit\u0103 asupra realit\u0103\u021bii. Dac\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 ne deta\u0219\u0103m, ne-am putea ata\u0219a tot mai mult unii de al\u021bii, de \u00eentreaga natur\u0103, de cunoa\u0219terea universal\u0103 \u0219i de fascinantele manifest\u0103ri ale materiei, integr\u00e2ndu-le pe toate, atunci puterile noastre ca OM-MENIRE ar deveni ne-LIMITATE. A deta\u0219a \u00eenseamn\u0103 a pune limite, \u00een timp ce a ata\u0219a \u00eenseamn\u0103 a le dizolva! C\u00e2nd poate s\u0103 capete ata\u0219amentul propriet\u0103\u021bi distrug\u0103toare? Atunci c\u00e2nd decade \u00een dependen\u021b\u0103 sau despotism iar cel care devine \u00een acest fel obsedat de control, \u00een loc s\u0103 se extind\u0103, &nbsp;limiteaz\u0103 libert\u0103\u021bile individuale, for\u021beaz\u0103 rela\u021biile \u0219i dicteaz\u0103 \u00eemprejur\u0103rile de via\u021b\u0103 ale celor din jurul lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen astrologie, consider c\u0103 sunt 2 case care exprim\u0103 \u00een mod special formele de ata\u0219ament creativ: casa a V a iubirii (leul) \u0219i casa a VIII a dorin\u021belor de transcenden\u021b\u0103 (scorpionul). Acestea arat\u0103 c\u0103 evolu\u0103m prin iubirea care ata\u0219eaz\u0103 \u0219i astfel creeaz\u0103 \u0219i ne transform\u0103m prin dorin\u021b\u0103. \u00cen Tarotul de Marseille, le corespund arcanele \u0218aretei VII \u00een zodia Leului, Sp\u00e2nzuratul XII \u0219i Arcana f\u0103r\u0103 nume XIII \u00een zodia Scorpionului. \u00cen mod ideal, \u0218areta ar reprezenta dragostea pentru frumuse\u021bea c\u0103l\u0103toriei \u00een via\u021ba terestr\u0103, \u00een plin\u0103 glorie, Sp\u00e2nzuratul \u0219i Arcana f\u0103r\u0103 nume ata\u0219amentul fa\u021b\u0103 de procesul f\u0103r\u0103 de sf\u00e2r\u0219it al repetabilelor na\u0219teri \u0219i rena\u0219teri, chiar cu pre\u021bul a numeroase suferin\u021be. \u00cens\u0103 Arcana f\u0103r\u0103 nume are o natur\u0103 paradoxal\u0103 fiindc\u0103, pe de o parte ea simbolizeaz\u0103 \u0219i deta\u0219area de trecut pentru a permite ata\u0219area de misterul din viitor. \u00cen acest fel, ata\u0219amentul \u0219i deta\u0219area sunt interconectate \u00eentr-un proces continuu de descoperire de Sine. Fiecare dintre arcane ilustreaz\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 multiple alte semnifica\u021bii \u0219i o predispozi\u021bie pentru diferite forme de ata\u0219ament: Nebunul de libertate, Magicianul de jocul cu focul, Papesa de misterele din cartea vie\u021bii, \u00cemp\u0103r\u0103teasa de crea\u021biile materiale frumoase, \u00cemp\u0103ratul de strategiile mentale (eventual militare), Papa de puterea comunic\u0103rii, \u00cendr\u0103gostitul de erotism \u0219i complexitatea rela\u021biilor interumane,&nbsp; \u0218areta de pl\u0103cerile c\u0103l\u0103toriei, Justi\u021bia de rigurozitate, Eremitul de cunoa\u0219tere, Roata Fortunei de permanenta mi\u0219care, Puterea de control, Sp\u00e2nzuratul de b\u00e2rna materialit\u0103\u021bii, Arcana f\u0103r\u0103 nume de explorarea necunoscutului, Temperan\u021ba de armonie, Diavolul de inteligen\u021b\u0103, Casa Dumnezeu de dep\u0103\u0219irea limitelor, Raiul de pace, Luna de inspira\u021bia nocturn\u0103, Soarele de lumina \u0219i c\u0103ldura uman\u0103, Judecata de spiritualitate, Lumea de idealism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cine se teme s\u0103 se ata\u0219eze \u0219i consider\u0103 c\u0103 ata\u0219amentele ne limiteaz\u0103, cred c\u0103 gre\u0219e\u0219te. Ele reprezint\u0103 forme specifice de cunoa\u0219tere mental-emo\u021bional\u0103 prin care ne conect\u0103m intim cu lumea \u00eenconjur\u0103toare \u0219i ne extindem con\u0219tiin\u021ba. De fapt, cu fiecare nou ata\u0219ament, experien\u021ba fiec\u0103ruia se \u00eembog\u0103\u021be\u0219te. Iar ata\u0219amentul dus p\u00e2n\u0103 la identificare dezvolt\u0103 empatia, telepatia, compasiunea, solidaritatea. \u00cen acest fel, chiar dac\u0103, dintr-un motiv sau altul, sursa ata\u0219amentului dispare din realitatea fizic\u0103 personal\u0103, ea r\u0103m\u00e2ne mereu vie \u00een memoria personajului, cu bucurie \u0219i recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103, ca o parte constitutiv\u0103 a istoriei lui de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"556\" height=\"423\" src=\"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/7-12-13.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-602\" srcset=\"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/7-12-13.jpg 556w, https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/7-12-13-300x228.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 556px) 100vw, 556px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i dorin\u021b\u0103<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe root of suffering is attachment.\u201c<br \/>\nR\u0103d\u0103cina suferin\u021bei este ata\u0219amentul.<br \/>\nBuddha<\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 o \u00eentreag\u0103 mi\u0219care \u201ccultural-spiritual\u0103\u201c de respingere \u0219i def\u0103imare a ata\u0219amentului, \u00een favoarea practic\u0103rii deta\u0219\u0103rii, pe care \u0219i eu personal am \u00eencurajat-o o vreme. Se mai spune de asemenea c\u0103 ata\u0219amentul \u0219i dorin\u021ba cauzeaz\u0103 \u00een mod inevitabil suferin\u021ba. A\u0219adar, ata\u0219amentul e bun sau e r\u0103u? \u0218i de fapt ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 ata\u0219amentul?&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tarot"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=601"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/601\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2679,"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/601\/revisions\/2679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carteamagului.ro\/tarot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}